A couple of days ago my wife gave me permission to take Viagra and get a little PIV. That’s rare and even with little willy and with a lot of pre cum lube it’s tight and I have to take it easy at first. Well, everything worked out and to my surprise, she said I could have a full blown orgasm.
That was the second one this year and totally unexpected, but I’m currently feeling sub drop, which she does not like.
My other big surprise happened a couple of weeks ago. I’m in bed licking my wife’s pussy and ass and to my surprise the sheets are covered with my cum, without any stimulation of little willy.
Looks like my life of chastity is going to be hard to achieve. Has this ever happened to anyone else?
Submissive Husband 
I leak precum constantly when I pleasure my wife or if I am in aroused state for any reason, even if I am not hard. And when I have no orgasms for a long time I sometimes notice some semen-like milky substance in my precum. But so far I haven’t ejaculated yet without at least some minimum stimulation of the penis. But I believe I could. On a few occassions I felt something similar to ruined orgasm (without proper ejaculation, just a drop or two) when my wife orgasmed after a long sex from my oral services or a vibrator.
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For the first eight years of my marriage I took Viagra without ever telling my wife. Then one day she discovered the viagra and confronted me. She flushed the viagra down the toilet and we have not had PIV sex since (2 years ago). After that we had a long talk about sex and my inability to maintain an erection with PIV sex. She told me she never really liked PIV and she does not want me entering her anymore. I opened up to her about my submissive desires and introduced the idea of an FLR and orgasm control. That was all strange to her and she didn’t know what to make of it. My wife has never given me oral sex and has no intention of ever giving me oral sex. The only sex I get now is licking her ass and pussy (mostly her ass). It’s not until recently that she has really embraced the orgasm control and FLR. Not sure why but now she bosses me around on a daily basis and sometimes I go 3 weeks without an orgasm. She uses a vibrator on my cock if I ask her nice. Most of the time she stops before I orgasm. I am on the honor system and I do good with that. I am more obedient to her the longer I go without an orgasm. She has figured that out so the orgasms are becoming more infrequent. I like the orgasm control and don’t need a chastity device. I feel really horny and hot for my wife every minute of every day. Her finding the Viagra was great for our marriage.
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I know exactly how you feel. The constant pleasure of being horny and on the edge 24 hours a day is much better than a few seconds of extreme pleasure of an orgasm. I was just licking my wifes pussy and ass and begging her to let me cum and I just love it when she tells me “NO”, it makes me feel so submissive to her.
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We seem to have a lot in common in regard to our marriage. I am in my late 50’s. My wife is naturally Dominant and bossy. The FLR works good for us
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Lucky you. my wife is not a natural dom, but she does like to get her own way. She likes me to be submissive to her and wonders why we didn’t start this lifestyle along time ago.
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You had a question about leaking. That happens to me all the time. For example my panty became really wet when I was typing my story this morning. I always leak precum when I lick my wife and when she uses the vibrator on me. I also have ruined orgasms. My wife likes me to wear a tight thong when she uses the vibrator on me. The tight thong prevents me from getting an erection. I’ll tell her when I am getting close. Most of the time she will stop but when she does let me cum it’s with the thong that prevents the erection. That results in a partial release and I am soon really horny again. It’s rare that I can cum 100% nude. I am nude most of the time at home but the thong goes on if she agrees to tease me.
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I leak loads of pre cum during our tease session, but this was more like a ruined orgasm or a wet dream.
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You say you only had 2 full orgasms this year. Do your balls get sore? It’s been 2 weeks for me and my balls are feeling like I really need to cum.
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My balls ache after about 10 days to 2 weeks, and I usually have an accident and a ruined orgasm. The ache in my balls feels good to me because I am so horny. We are working on getting rid of all accidents.
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My wife teased me with the vibrator this morning for less than 2 minutes. I had a panty on (not the usual tight thong). My cock got hard and popped out of the panty. She stopped and said not today and then she ordered me to make her breakfast. I said yes honey – thank you honey. She has really embraced the FLR. It’s been 16 days now since my last orgasm.
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Good job for lasting 16 days, I’ll bet you feel great. My wife woke up early and gave me a pee treat and went back to bed. I didn’t catch it all and it went all over me. I told her that I love it when she pees on me, and she said that she loves to pee on me and in my mouth. I will get another treat when I get her up at 9. Then I make breakfast, but I say yes ma’am and thank you ma’am.
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Yes thank you. All on the honor system. My wife has never peed on me. Not sure I would like pee in my mouth. Licking her asshole is the most submissive thing I do sexually. That really makes me feel like her obedient dirty slut. You know what I mean? If I had to choose between licking her pussy or asshole and would only get to do one I would choose licking and tongue fucking her asshole. That’s all she seems to like. Not sure why
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Licking my wife’s ass always makes me feel so submissive. After my pee treat and I lick her clean, she always lets me lick her ass for about a minute.
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It seems our relationships have a lot in common. Licking my wife’s asshole is one of my favorite activities. I wouldn’t put it above pussy licking, but it is a very close second. And yes, whenever I do it, it arouses me immensly and makes me feel very submissive and willing/wanting to serve and obey. But like any other sexual activity, I have to earn it, I cannot just burry my face between my wife’s cheeks whenever I want, I need to get a permission or be ordered to do it. It is a sex play, but it became an integral part of our sex life. It is interesting that after about a year of nearly no PIV sex (I have been actively denied access to her wonderful vagina with my penis) and severe reduction of orgasms (about once per month) my wife is now again showing more interest in using my little dick not just to tease and torment me but for her own pleasure. It’s like she got bored a bit by the large vibrators that I mostly used in addition to oral sex to satisfy her over the last year or so. She also lets me cum more often again, maybe once a week or so, although there is still no regularity to when I might be allowed to ejaculate. And like you guys I have some erection problems, not with getting hard but with staying fully hard long enough. Sometimes I can pull it off, but in most cases I cannot stay hard enough unless I take an erection pill. For some time I was strictly forbidden to take them (my wife’s orders), but now she tollerates it again. And like you Jack, I am on an honor system, I am not locked up but I also don’t masturbate unless expressly allowed or ordered to do it. I only cum in presence of my wife. I have also noticed that I have a hard time getting fully erect alone, without my wife’s participation (actual or in spirit). For example, I get full erection from her order to wash her panties or a sharp smack to my balls, but I have to work hard to stimulate myself to ereection if I am on my own. Yeah, I still touch myself, but I don’t cum. It is crazy, I am getting more and more conditioned to get fully aroused only with my wife. I guess it would probably work the same with other women, but I cannot really try it, LOL.
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I am also on the honor system and must have permission to lick my wife’s permission to lick her pussy and ass, but she usually allows it if she is naked. Even in the middle of the night I can wake her up and she is back to sleep in a minute. Other than that I’m allowed the first thing in the morning and before and after her shower. Of course I want it all day long but not allowed.
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Tom, good to hear your story. I also hand wash my wife’s panties. She lays them out for me and it’s understood that it is my job to hand wash them. Yeah it’s interesting that the 3 of us have very similar sex life/desires. Honor system works good. I really don’t want the hassle and discomfort of a chastity device and luckily my wife thinks they are not good for my health.
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Yes, same here, she leaves her panties in a designated spot. Her bra and stockings too, it is nearly a daily routine for me as is cleaning her shoes. I always hand wash all her delicate lingerie. After several years of doing it regularly I don’t even consider these real chores, I enjoy them and get easily aroused by her pussy&ass and feet fragrance. And when I find the panties she slept in on my pillow it means I am to wear them the whole day. The kinkiness of wearing her worn panties that smell so deliciously of her sex is still a big turn on for me even though I have already done it many times.
Frankly, I am not sure how I would react if my wife decided to never allow me a full orgasm again. I wouldn’t like it one bit, that’s for sure. I don’t think she will ever demand that. She had me down to once a month or less and I survived. It was insanely hard sometimes and I cried with frustration/arousal, but deep down I knew she would let me cum again eventually. Like Cincy’s wife she notices a decline in my obedience every time she lets me cum and this change in attitude does annoy her. I also hate that sudden change in me that happens whenever I am allowed to ejaculate. I really struggle to stay submissive. Luckily both my horniness and desire to serve her return quickly, but it takes longer (hours) for me to regain ability for full erection again.
I am getting more frequent orgasms now because my wife wants more vaginal sex again. She says nothing quite beats the feeling of a real twitching cock inside her cunt, even one as small as mine. And that’s after more than a year of nearly no PIV sex with me and in spite of insanely powerful orgasms she can have when I fuck her long and slow with her favorite large vibrator. I could never make her cum like that with my dick or tongue, these orgasms are really something special. It seems that long abstinence from vaginal intercourses and very infrequent orgasms of the last two years have turned me into a serious premature ejaculator again. The only way I can last long enough for her now is if she makes me cum first and then when I regain erection she can ride me and I can fuck her properly. I will have to relearn how not to cum so quickly.
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cincy34,
It sounds like you had a spontaneous orgasm or release; like a wet dream. I’m on a monthly release schedule and I’ve actually had one spontaneous orgasm long after a long tease session, which I enjoyed. I was even wearing my chastity device. I admit that I was on the verge or edge or an orgasm when my wife stopped teasing me. After cooling off I got my device back on and locked, but had that weird on edge feeling. My wife wasn’t angry because it was close to when she planned to give me an orgasm but said next time she’s going to not just wait for me to cool off but stop teasing sooner and have a bag filled with ice ready and apply it around whole groin. Wearing a chastity device made the orgasm very uncomfortable. I assume there are men who get teased but never release, but I don’t know how they do it, and I might have been one if we got the hand of prostate stimulation.
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We are working on my being teased and denied without ever having a ruined orgasm. She doesn’t like my attitude even after a ruined orgasm, and we would much rather me stay horny 24 hours a day for ever.
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Of course I understand your morivation, we want the same, my perpetual horniness and obedience. But I think that knowing that I will never cum again would gradually take the excitement away from me. And I need that. As it is, hoping and wishing for the orgasm in some unknown future keeps me motivated and on the edge and eager to please most of the time, in sex and otherwise. I get erections and precum flowing from doing some very mundane and even unpleasant tasks (cleaning the toilet, for instance). And when I am finally allowed or ordered to cum I frequently ask her not to make me do it for the same reasons as you. Sometimes I still have to do it, because she simply likes to watch me do what she wants.
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We are working toward that goal, but we may never really get there. My last accident was only 11 days ago.
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My wife asked me what I wanted for my birthday. I told her I would like her to teach me to lick her pussy so she enjoys it. She said Ok but I doubt it will happen. All she let’s me do anymore is lick her asshole. I have a feeling I’ll be licking her asshole on my birthday. Has anyone else’s wife gone through a phase where she doesn’t like her pussy licked? I think it is because of menopause. In the past she has enjoyed it.
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I hope that never happens with my wife, she is not menopausal yet, but in a year or two… I could accept to be permanently denied PIV sex, but pussy licking and bringing her to orgasm with my tongue and mouth is my favorite and we would run into a serious argument if she took that away. As a punishment she has done it before and I deserved it even when it was for a whole month, but not permanently. She actually likes both, pussy and ass licking, but she cannot cum from just my tongue in her ass, so pussy eating is her favorite form of oral sex too.
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My wife enjoys both.
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I can no longer get my wife off by licking her pussy and ass, she gets all her orgasms now with her Magic Wand. She does want me to be part of it so I sit between her legs and watch and as soon as he cums, she wants me to lick her pussy and ass because it extends her orgasm for another minute or two.
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Sounds like great fun! We also use a Magic Wand, except that it is me who uses it to pleasure her. A few times she held it against the underside of my willy and ruined my orgasms by taking it away just a moment before I would have erupted. However, my wife’s favorite toy for the last two years is a large penis-shaped vibrator (a black Big Boss G5 by Fun Factory), her most powerful and long-lasting orgasms come from this toy thrusting to the hilt into her well lubricated and aroused vagina and from simultaneous stimulation of her anus with my tongue. It takes time to build to these amazing orgasms, but once she gets there, it is simply the most beautiful and erotic experience for me and it leaves her deeply satisfied and totally exhausted (she needs to sleep more often than not afterwards). It is a nearly orgasmic experience for me too. She still can and does get off fucking my little dick, when she choses to and if I can manage to last long enough, but those orgasms are less intense, simply because I cannot fill her up and reach the back of her vagina with my penis. No, penis size is certainly not all in sex, but it most definitely does matter, and quite a lot IMHO.
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I’ve had an experience where Sir got me semi-hard. I couldn’t do much better. She got on top as She usually does, and I ended up cumming just before entering Her. She used a vibrator in between us to get Herself off.
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